Ashley Madison Mantra: Life Is Short; Have an Affair

Men outnumber women 9 to 1 at Ashley Madison, the Internet website for couples wanting to fool around with a bit of adultery. In fact, the disparity between men and women doesn’t reflect real-life infidelity trends estimated that 5o-65 percent of husbands and 45-55 percent of wives become extramaritally involved by age 40.

The Ashley Madison Agency is an online social networking website that facilitates infidelity. While the focus is an inperson encounter or ongoing affair, presumably many “couples” use Ashley Madison for online pleasures as well.

via Flickr’s kobushiThere’s no real sex in Vanity Fair writer Melanie Berliet’s story about her experiences with three men on Ashley Madison. But the piece is an accurate peek through the keyhole of modern marriage in America.

Berliet lost her credibility with me in the fourth paragraph of the Cheater’s Club, reflecting that in real life, she only noticed a man’s wedding ring after their intimate romp in bed.

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No one believes that for a moment. Looking for a wedding ring is the first place people’s eyes wander in a sensual introduction. Nevertheless, the remainder of her story is well written.

Earlier this year, I wrote about Ashley Madison in a journal article about aging and modern marital sexuality: Bioidentical Hormones Have Redefined Me. The piece features Ashley Madison commercials and Oprah talking about hormones and sexuality in women. A